FREE RESOURCES FOR PARENTSYou didn't expect to find what you found.
And now you're not sure what to say, what to do, or who to call.
Most parents who land here found something they weren't looking for. A browser history. A text thread. A conversation they accidentally overheard. And in the minutes that followed, everything changed.
Maybe you haven't talked to your child yet. Maybe you already have — and it didn't go the way you hoped. Either way, you're here because you want to handle this well.
I'm Rob Jackson. I've been a counselor and coach for four decades, and I began my specialization in the treatment of sex and porn addiction in 1994. I've worked with hundreds of parents in exactly this moment — and I've seen what happens when parents respond with both clarity and love.
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W H A T ' S W A I T I N G F O R Y O U
Six free resources for the moment you're in.
Free audio teaching + handout
Understanding the Christian sexual ethic and ethos
Why a Christian understanding of sexuality is not a list of rules — it's a covenant vision of what we were made for. Includes a handout and a specific section for parents navigating this conversation with a minor child.
Free webinar
The Icebergology approach: how to serve your child in this moment
What's happening below the surface. What your child needs from you. And how to begin a conversation that doesn't shut the door.
Free downloadable guide
What to do in the next 48 hours
A plain-language guide for the first two days after discovery. What to say. What not to say. How to create space for an honest conversation without escalating fear or shame on either side.
⏱ Coming soon
Free video
A word from Rob before you talk to your child
Before you have that conversation, watch this. Four minutes. Everything I'd say to a parent the day they found something they didn't expect to find.
New — Sept 1
Free podcast · Season 2
The Icebergology of Life — Sexual Formation
Season 2 launches September 1. Twenty-five episodes applying the Icebergology framework to sexuality, identity, shame, recovery, and family formation. The companion series to Shade™.
Free white paper
Digital accountability & whole-person formation
Your child is living in a world you haven't been told about. Monitoring tools, the legal framework, and a whole-person formation approach that addresses the heart, not just the behavior.
W H O R O B J A C K S O N I S
Four decades. Hundreds of families. No easy answers — but real ones.
Rob Jackson, MS, LPC, is a licensed professional counselor, life coach, and the founder of Icebergology™ and Icebergology Coaching. He is the author of When Grace Meets Conviction: Loving God and Your LGBT Child (October 2026).
He has worked with parents, couples, and individuals navigating some of the most painful and complex territory a family can face. His approach is not crisis management. It's formation — the slow, honest, Spirit-guided work of becoming who God made us to be, and helping the people we love do the same.
"Sexual formation is spiritual formation — and it points to the greatest love of all."
— Rob Jackson
FAMILY FORMATION MEMBERSHIP
SHADE™
A formation membership for parents and children — together.
✦ Especially well-suited for homeschooling families Companion to Season 2 of The Icebergology of Life
| S | Sexual formation | rooted in Scripture, not fear |
| H | Holiness | a loving response to the God who first loved us |
| A | Accountability | that goes below the surface |
| D | Discipleship | for the whole family |
| E | Equipping | parents and children together |
PODCAST COMPANION SERIES
Season 2 of The Icebergology of Life launches September 1 — 25 episodes on sexual formation, identity, shame, recovery, and family discipleship.
Every episode goes deeper into the formation questions behind the nine tracks inside Shade. Listen free. Go deeper inside the membership.
NINE TRACKS — FIND YOURS
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HELP —
My Child Has Been Exposed to Pornography |
HELP —
My Child Has Been Sexually Abused |
HELP —
My Child Identifies as LGBT |
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HELP —
I Want to Teach My Child a Christian Vision of Sexuality |
HELP —
My Child Is Struggling with Sexual Shame |
HELP —
My Child Has Been Exposed to Dangerous Online Content |
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HELP —
My Child Has Confessed and Is Ready for Restoration |
HELP —
I Don't Know What My Child Is Accessing Online |
HELP —
My Own History Is Getting in the Way |
WHAT'S INCLUDED EVERY MONTH
| ✓ Sexual formation content for parents | ✓ Family videos and handouts — parent + teen together |
| ✓ Repentance and recovery modules | ✓ LGBT formation section |
| ✓ Your question answered by Rob on video | ✓ Growing archive of answered questions |
| ✓ Monthly group call — lesson, Q&A, and prayer | ✓ One family login — share with your teen |
OPEN NOW — FOUNDING MEMBERS ONLY
Shade opens September 1. Founding members get early access, a permanent place in the first cohort, and the lowest price this membership will ever be. The door opens the same week Season 2 launches.
$47 / month
One family login · Cancel anytime
T H E N E X T S T E P
Join me for a free conversation.
I'm hosting a free webinar for parents — specifically for the moment you're in right now. We'll talk through what your child may be experiencing, what you're carrying, and how to move forward without making this worse.
No slides. No script. Just an experienced counselor and a room full of parents who need to know they're not alone.
Date coming soon — add your name to be notified
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