Grace Meets Conviction

A Guided Group for Discernment, Boundaries, and Faithful Love

When your child is distant, resistant, or gone—

how do you love well without enabling, overreacting, or losing yourself?

If you’re the parent of an adult child who has wandered relationally, spiritually, or morally, you already know the weight you carry:

You second-guess every text—or silence.
You don’t know whether helping financially is loving or harmful.
You lie awake wondering if you’re doing too much—or not enough.
You want peace, but not at the cost of faithfulness.

This group exists to help you discern your next faithful steps—with clarity, wisdom, and trust in God’s work.

What This Group Is (and Is Not)

This group is:

A guided, pastorally grounded group for parents of adult children
Focused on discernment, not control
Rooted in Scripture and the Iceberg Model™
A place to clarify boundaries, contact, and support decisions

This group is not:

Therapy for your child
A guarantee of reconciliation
A pressure-filled accountability group
A space for venting without direction

You will not be told what to do.

You will be helped to see clearly, decide wisely, and act faithfully.

The Central Question We Address

“How do I love my child well without interfering with what God may be doing?”

Session Overview

Who This Group Is For

This group is for parents who:

Have adult children (18+) who are distant, estranged, or resistant
Want biblical clarity without simplistic answers
Are tired of reacting and want to respond wisely
Desire peace with God, themselves, and their child—whatever the outcome

One or both parents may attend under a single registration.

Format: Live Zoom group

Meeting Time: Saturdays at 11:00 AM Eastern

(8:00 AM PT / 9:00 AM MT / 10:00 AM CT)

Length: 6 weekly sessions

Group Size: Limited, to preserve safety and depth

Facilitator: Rob Jackson, Founder & Lead Coach, Icebergology™

Sessions are not recorded.

Pricing & Registration

Investment: $425 per parent unit

(One or both parents may attend under a single registration)

The Group Covenant

Participation in this group requires a shared commitment to creating a safe and focused environment. We will review and affirm these together at our first meeting.

Respect confidentiality
Speak with humility and restraint
Avoid unsolicited advice
Refrain from sharing identifying details about others
Honor the purpose and tone of the group

Note that:

The covenant will be reviewed and affirmed at the start of the group
Agreement is required to participate

Will the sessions be recorded?

How is confidentiality handled?

Will I be seen on Zoom?

Will I need to have my camera on?

What if I miss a session?

Is this therapy?

What if reconciliation never happens?

The father in the parable does not chase the son.

He stays ready, watching, and open to return.

This group exists to help you live that way—

loving well, waiting wisely, and trusting God deeply.

Enrollment Opening Soon

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