Rebuilding Trust and Healing from Betrayal

A Christ-Centered Journey of Healing and Renewal

With Rob Jackson, LPC – Founder of Icebergology™ Coaching Academy

If you've discovered your husband’s pornography use, infidelity, or secret life, you're not alone. This 16-week live coaching cohort is a safe place to begin again—led with compassion and clarity, rooted in Scripture, and guided by wisdom. You'll be equipped to rebuild trust, grieve losses, and move forward with confidence in Christ.


🔷 What You’ll Learn

This cohort walks you through 16 live sessions using the biblically grounded and uniquely designed Iceberg Model™. You’ll uncover the impact of betrayal on your spirit, mind, and body—and learn how to heal through biblical truth, psychological insights, and Spirit-led transformation.

  • The impact of betrayal trauma on your brain, body, and identity
  • How to calm reactivity and find spiritual and emotional clarity
  • How to create safety through wise boundaries—even if your spouse isn’t ready to change
  • Understanding shame, grief, and the loss of innocence
  • How to stop feeling crazy and start trusting God’s truth again
  • A map for healing your spirit, mind, body, and relationships


🧊 Why Icebergology™?

The Iceberg Model™ reveals what’s beneath the surface. This 9-step model is both diagnostic and discipleship-based—giving you clarity about your story and a path toward peace with God, yourself, and others.


🧭 The 16-Week Journey

🔹 Weeks 1–8: The Diagnostic Iceberg™

  1. Orientation: The Whole-Person Approach to Betrayal Recovery
  2. The 4 Stages of Spiritual Formation in Trauma Recovery
  3. Common Trauma Responses in Betrayed Partners
  4. Step 5: Surrender, Grief, and the Serenity Prayer for Betrayal Trauma
  5. Steps 6–9: Divine Desire, Healing Emotions, Renewing Thoughts, Responsive Behaviors
  6. Heart and Mind Wound Care™: Naming the Wounds of Deceit, Devaluation, and Disconnection
  7. Emotional Intelligence for Christian Recovery and Growth
  8. Integration & Preparing for the Discipleship Path


🔹 Weeks 9–16: The Discipleship Iceberg™ & Transformation Triads™

  1. The Surrendered Life: Embracing the Trinity and the Comforter
  2. Triad 1 – The Inside-Out Life: From Reactivity to Identity in Christ
  3. Practicing the Inside-Out Life with Support and Grace
  4. Triad 2 – The Renewed Mind: From Hypervigilance to Truth & Peace
  5. Practicing the Renewed Mind through Scripture and Discernment
  6. Triad 3 – The Responsive Life: From Fear to Strengthened Boundaries
  7. Practicing the Responsive Life in Real-Life Relationships
  8. Commissioning & Celebration: Building a Rule of Life for Peace and Safety


💼 What’s Included

  • 16 weekly live group coaching sessions (via Zoom)
  • Digital workbook with prompts, journaling space, and Scripture
  • Lifetime access to session recordings
  • Bonus: Access to the 2023 Mental Health Conference Recording
  • Bonus: The Betrayal Trauma Serenity Prayer Reflection Guide


🙋‍♀️ Is This for You?

This cohort is for Christian wives who:

  • Feel heartbroken, angry, or numb after discovering betrayal
  • Want to heal without being pressured to reconcile prematurely
  • Are seeking spiritual, emotional, and relational peace
  • Long to be known without shame and find clarity without chaos


đź’¬ What Women Are Saying

"For the first time, I felt understood and safe. I didn’t have to explain the pain—Rob already knew."
"This wasn’t just support—it was discipleship for my broken heart."
"I left this group stronger in my faith, wiser in my boundaries, and no longer alone."


đź“… Details & Pricing

  • Next Cohort Begins: [Insert Date]
  • Time: Thursdays @ 8:30 PM Eastern (90 minutes)
  • Format: Live Zoom
  • Group Size: Limited to 15 women
  • Investment: $497
  • Payment Plan: 3 monthly payments of $175
Bonus for Couples: When both the husband and wife register for their respective cohorts, they will receive 3 free one-on-one coaching sessions with Rob Jackson (a $750 value). This offer is only available when both cohorts are purchased together.


đź”’ Your Privacy Matters

You may attend using a first name only. Cameras are optional. This group is structured with grace, confidentiality, and dignity in mind.


🛡️ Our Guarantee

If you attend the first session and feel it’s not the right fit, simply request a full refund. No refunds are issued after the first week. We’re here to support you, not pressure you.


🚨 Limited Spots

Only 15 spots available to preserve safety and confidentiality.
Secure your place before registration closes.